Starting now I’ll be doing a 30 day blog challenge. Today’s is to describe my current relationship.

Well first off, I am in a relationship. Karlus and I became friends and started liking each other in junior high. He’s not only my boyfriend, but also my best friend. He encourages me and pushes me to do my best at everything. He’s the most amazing guy and I hope to be together the rest of our lives. Now I’m not going to get into extreme detail about our relationship, but I do have a list of a few things we enjoy doing.

Top Ten Things to do Together

• Going out for supper
• Mini golf 🏌🏼‍♀️
• 🏔Hiking and biking
• Board games and outdoor games
• Sports
• 🎡Going to the fair
• Car jam out sessions🎤
• 🏊🏻‍♂️Swimming
• Long walks
• 🎥 Movies

At the end of the day, we just really love spending time with each other.

One thing that I want to stress if you’re in a relationship is that it has to be God centered. An easy way to bring God into it is simply to do devotions together. You don’t have to do them every day, and we sure don’t, but occasionally I think it’s important. Another way to involve God is to pray. Pray with each other and pray for each other. Pray that your relationship will honor Him. Pray for the other persons struggles and needs. Pray that your love will be genuine and real. Those are just some examples of what I pray for.

The second thing I want to stress is communication. Sometimes your schedules will be busy and things will get hard; there has to be good, strong communication in a relationship to last. Short and simple: Communication is key.

Lastly, the way each person handles conflict is very important in a relationship. Usually guys and girls handle conflict quite a bit different, so knowing how each other does is important. I’ll give an example. Girls usually tend to want to talk through problems, and guys would rather try and forget them, (I’m not saying this is everyone) so you can see where the struggle could be in this. If you knew in advance how the other person might respond to the problem, it might not be as hard to work through together.

I hope you enjoyed the date ideas and the dating tips. Day two will be posted tomorrow!

This is the first time I’ve ever blogged, and I’m honestly a little nervous. I’ve never really put myself out there before. This post is really short just because it’s just my introduction post. So here’s a little bit about me…

My name is Kerstyn and I’m 16; I know that’s a little young to be starting a blog, but oh well! I love trying new things, going on adventures, playing sports, singing, baking, art, and lots of other things. I hope to show you guys a little more about throughout all of my coming posts.